Cunnilingus Techniques
This form of oral sex, consist of stroking the vaginal walls, clitoris, and the outer lips of the vagina using your tongue, mouth and lips to stimulate her to the point of orgasm. Foreplay, with cunnilingus, before intercourse makes the female feel more special and important during sex. Plus her knowing that she has already had an orgasm makes intercourse a little less trying for the man to go ahead and get his. Better yet, giving each other oral sex and both reaching orgasm leaves the rest of the night to endless possibilities.
So you want to learn to please your girl by cunnilingus, well follow these top ten simple and practical techniques:
- The Lick: Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener.
- Labial Hold: While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.
- Tongue Intercourse: The majority of a woman's nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Target them with your tongue by inserting it into her vaginal opening. Techniques are pretty limited due to the length of your tongue, but try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.
- Humming: In cunniligus can be included a practice called humming, that consists of making a guttural sound with the throat to produce ticklen in the sensible feminine genital mucosa.
- The Clitoris Suck: Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her - but don't overdo it! We recommend not using your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.
- The Clitoris Hold: Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.
- Linking vrs. Fingering: Insert two fingers in her vagina while licking her clit. Curl those fingers up towards your tongue, capturing her clit and G-spot between your mouth and fingers. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers; get a rhythm going.
- Let your lover straddle your face: If lying back to be licked is too passive for her, let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact. To make this position even more fun, get tied down to the bed before she mounts you, and maybe she'll even boss you around with firm directives: "stick your tongue out!", "open your mouth!" "suck it boy", and so on. Bottomy munchers will, well, lick it up.
- The Tongue Tube: Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive orgasm.
- Mix it up: If all you do is lick up and down, up and down, ("fencepainting"), chances are that it'll get boring to your partner after a while. Vary your movements, add pressure, use your lips, breath and teeth in addition to your tongue, change positions, use your hands..Get your whole creative body involved.
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