Possitive Erotic Results

Let's started to get the message that your negative thinking is your enemy. It seems like it should be easy enough to decide to stop thinking negative things about yourself and simply do it. Our brain loves to chatter away at us all day long.

To make things easier plan ahead to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. That's right, learning to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones is one of the most powerful tools you'll learn in your whole life

You need to start talking to yourself in positive and life affirming ways - especially in regards to pick up women and your love life!

Finding the right gang

It's tough to go out on the town to meet a new woman all by yourself. Be smart and gather together a group of single guy and gal friends who are up for trying new things and going out socially on a regular basis. Yes, doing the online personals thing is great but you've also got to get out in the world and find out what kind of fun things singles do now. You also need to find a regular hang out. Why? Because shy people need to see someone at least a couple of times before they'll do anything more than say "hello" to someone. Yes, that shy person may be you, but it could just as easily be her.

Once you're out of school it isn't so easy making friends but then it never really was, was it? How do you go about making new friends? Recognize that you're not the only lonely soul out there and dust off your friend making skills from kinder garden. Yes, they still work.

Choose friends who bring you up and like to have fun. If possible choose friends who dare you to be a bit bolder and do more than you're use to doing

Pay attention to women

Those who are shy and insecure can both miss out on getting to know cool women, and also lose any chance of physical erotic intimacy, simply by being too lost in our own thoughts. When you're out on a date with a woman leave your insecure ego at home. You got the date so move forward with confidence. Not sure what to say? Ask her about herself. Most men spend a good part of the first date bragging about themselves, if not all the time, bragging about what a great catch they are.

Ask the woman about herself and pay attention. Paying attention reaps huge rewards - like sex. Women love it when men listen, but don't try to fix them. Don't give her a lecture, but share something of your own self that has to do with what she talked about. Show her that you understand where she's coming from and she'll be happily surprised and intrigued. By being caught up in your own head you might also miss clues the woman's giving you that she'd like something more from you. If you're rambling on in your own head you're not going to notice when she tilts her head to the side while talking to you, plays with her hair, touches your hand or knee for emphases, or wants to hang out longer and longer, all signs she wants you to at least kiss her.

Forward in your attraction for her

Many shy men out there feel guilty about their desire for a woman so they either send mixed or no signals about their physical desire for a woman. This drives women crazy, and not in a good way. If you want a woman let her know, don't make overt sexual remarks during the first date, but do let her know you find her very physically attractive. Many men who date from online personals don't realize that they need to reinforce their attraction to a woman once he meets her in person. Women usually have a far worse opinion of their desirability than we think they do. Even incredibly attracting and sexy women don't think they're all that. If you think she is, let her know.

Doing those thing you'll have a very possitive erotic result for sure !