Undress Your Woman

It is never easy to be vulnerable, with our feelings, our thoughts, or our bodies. And, when we begin dating again, after establishing a friendship that can lead to intimacy, a key moment of vulnerability comes the first time you undress each other.

How do we enjoy these experiences? One way is to think of them as moments where you can appreciate, savor, taste, and touch each other for the first time. And depending on your knowledge of each other, and your desire, think about how to make a moment that you'll remember. I like this recipe:

1. Stand behind her.
2. Pull her hair away from her ears.
3. Sweep your lips up and down her neck.
4. Reach around and pull her into you.
5. Say something to her, or whisper her name.
6. Move the tips of your fingers up her waist to the sides of her breasts. Turn her around, if you like.
7. Undo the first button.
8. Then a kiss as she turns her face up toward you.
9. Undo the second button.
10. A second kiss...

In high altitudes, or even if you're with a longtime partner or spouse, this recipe still works.

Romantic movies and erotic music can help set the scene for your romantic-erotic moments.